2nd chances?

Do you believe in 2nd chances? Forgiving someone who's hurt you in so many ways, and done things that a loved one shouldn't do? I'm a strong believer that a person can change his or her wrong doings, but find it hard to give someone a second chance. I think it has to do with everything that I've gone through in life, and the many bad experiences that's been thrown at me. It's hard to just move on from something and say that yeah it's forgotten let's start new. I don't think you can really start something new when there's already history of negativity. I think it would he hard to move on and live life like nothing happened. What I'm really trying to say here is that in relationships (bf/gf), once something has happened it's not easy to give second chances. I came from a relationship that ended wrong, and I decided to break it off coz it wouldn't be right for me to go back to that. But I get questions whether it was the right decision or should I have thought about it more? My answer to those questions, is yes I am doing he right thing and this is what's best for me. Yah at some point I also though about going back, but I thought about what would eventually happen in the long run and opted to stick with my first choice. I don't want to get into details as to what happened in that relationship, but I am a better person now coz of that experience. At the end of the day, you just have to do what you think is best for you and not worry about what other people will say. Eventually it's your feelings and emotions that you'll have to worry about and not those around you:).



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